Life stage

Perimenopause, written down day by day

Your periods change, sleep gets lighter and symptoms come and go for months at a time. Her Good Days keeps the dates, so you can see what is shifting and bring it to your doctor.

Sources checked October 30, 2026

Sarah, a trainer in Her Good Days, walking on a park path on an autumn morning
The short answer

Perimenopause is the run-up to menopause, when hormone levels rise and fall unevenly. It usually affects women between 45 and 55, and can start earlier. Menopause itself is dated 12 months after your last period.[1][3]

Common changes include irregular periods, hot flashes, night sweats, poor sleep, mood changes and brain fog.[2] A short daily log shows which of them you have, how often, and what tends to come before them.

What changes in perimenopause

Cycles are often the first sign. They can get shorter or longer, with a skipped month here and there and flow that's heavier or lighter than you're used to.[2][4]

Other changes people report:

  • hot flashes and night sweats
  • waking long before your usual time, or trouble falling asleep
  • low mood, irritability or anxiety that feels new
  • trouble finding words, or brain fog[5]
  • joint aches, and headaches that are worse than usual
  • weight gain, often around the stomach[2][3]

Not everyone gets all of these, and some come and go. That's why a record over weeks tells you more than a guess at the end of a bad month.

What to log, and why it helps at the doctor

A few taps a day is enough. In Her Good Days, a woman in perimenopause usually sees Hot flash, Period, Sleep, Mood and Brain fog in her Log menu first, and she can change that.

LogWhat it shows after a month
Period start and flowCycle lengths in days, and any gap over 60 days
Hot flash or night sweatHow many a week, and at what time of day
SleepHours slept and wake-ups, next to nights with night sweats
Mood and energyLow days against your cycle and your sleep
Medication and supplementsWhich days you took them, from your reminders
The Log menu for Karen, 47, in perimenopause: Again, Brain fog at 8:30 AM on top, then Hot flash, Period, Sleep, Mood and Brain fog
Karen's Log menu: Hot flash, Period, Sleep, Mood, Brain fog.

The doctor report puts those dates on a few pages. In a short appointment, "14 hot flashes last week, most after 2 PM" is easier to act on than "they're bad lately".

When to see a doctor

Book an appointment if you think you have perimenopause symptoms and want to know your options, or if your periods get heavier or last longer than usual, come less than 21 days apart, or you bleed after sex or between periods. Any bleeding after 12 months with no period needs a check.[2][4][6]

Moving through it

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Questions

What age does perimenopause start?

ACOG says hormone levels can start to swing in your 30s and 40s, and the NHS says perimenopause and menopause usually affect women between 45 and 55. The app works the same at any age.

How do I know if it is perimenopause?

The NHS says there is no routine test, and a doctor may diagnose it from your age and symptoms. A log of period dates and symptoms gives that conversation something concrete to work with.

Can the app tell me I am in perimenopause?

No. You pick your stage yourself, and the app never labels you. If your cycles change, it may ask whether you want to update your stage, and you can say not now.

Does it still track my periods?

Yes. In perimenopause the cycle stays on, with period dates and flow next to your symptoms, so long or skipped cycles show up in the same view.

Sources

  1. NHS: What are menopause and perimenopause? Checked October 30, 2026
  2. NHS: Symptoms of menopause and perimenopause Checked October 30, 2026
  3. ACOG: The menopause years Checked October 30, 2026
  4. ACOG: Perimenopausal bleeding and bleeding after menopause Checked October 30, 2026
  5. The Menopause Society: Perimenopause Checked October 30, 2026
  6. NHS: Irregular periods Checked October 30, 2026

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